What are the worst ways for a man to aproach a woman in trying to get to know her, and what is the best way.?
Posted on Feb 23, 2010 under Man and woman | 4 CommentsAlso does size really matter in male anatomy? If so why is it so important as us males can not experience such things as you woman can.
How much does humor affect the chance of getting to know a woman, and what humor will get you banned for life?
Does intently looking at a woman cause sure banisment of ever getting to know her?
We all (Males) would love to be able to get some ground rules on a womans out look in how we are veiwed and what we do right and wrong. We do not have all the answers so we all need help once in a while. Can you give us some help?
February 23rd, 2010 at 7:13 am
the worst ways to come up to a women is with chessy pick up lines (so 6th grade)! and size doesnt really matter as long as its BIGGER then 3 inches!!! its really all about how you know to work with what you got!
February 23rd, 2010 at 7:13 am
Making eye contact is a must if you want to be subtle. No intense psycho staring. Size matters to a certain extent, it will depend on the woman. Humor is good, but the type of humor, again depends on the woman. There are no perfect set rules for attracting a woman. Pick someone you admire and try and come close to what he does when hes around women.
February 23rd, 2010 at 7:13 am
To approach a women just walk up to her and introduce yourself, look her in the eye.
Size matters if it is not at a minimum (6 inches), it feels better the bigger it is, until, personally 8 inches starts to hurt.
It is good if you can make a women laugh, just stay away from jokes about "women" in general or jokes specifically about her (like her ass is big ).
It depends how you are looking at her. If you look at her with respect and interest its ok, if you look at her like she is a piece of meat, you have no chance.
February 23rd, 2010 at 7:13 am
‘The worst ways for a man to aproach a woman’ <== I DON’T KNOW, ‘The best way’ <== I DON’T KNOW.
‘THE’ is an article placed before nouns to limit or individualize their meaning.
If I could answer that, those would be general truths, I cannot but I can give you some ways for a man to approach a woman… bad and good.
‘Does size really matter in male anatomy?’ Men are visual, if you ask this as for mere appearance, I don’t think it matters at all though some women tend to take a look… it is not as important when you are not talking about intimacy. When it is about having sex, I think size does plays an important part as for the performance… but it also depends on the woman’s anatomy… I don’t want to write a chapter on that so, men ‘measure’ woman even if it is not about having sex… it doesn’t matter you just look at us, compare us, etc. you are visual. Some women are sexist and pretend to give importance to the size, if it happens it is not in the same way as you do, simply because we are different. Maybe a woman with experience would like to ‘measure’ it so that she can know the kind of performance you’ll have when having sex.
‘Does intently looking at a woman cause sure banisment of ever getting to know her?’ ===> It depends on the personality traits of the woman. Personally I think that saying ‘THE SURE BANISHMENT’ sounds bold to say!!! (==> to banish= to get rid of something completely). Some women like to be observed, when you intently look at them they feel flattered and somewhat they feed their pride and vanity (Some of my classmates belonged to this kind, they loved to be observed… they didn’t love the owner of the eyes but the fact to be observed). Some women don’t like to be observed because somewot they feel invaded… It is not a matter of being women but a matter of being human… the fact of being intently looked at can be upseting because this fact arouses uncertainty… and somewot fear (to the unknown).
‘Ground rules’ is a term that one should not apply when it is about knowing a person, simply because despite they are women, they are individuals and they are unique…
If you want to succeede as for: TRYING TO GET TO KNOW A WOMAN… you better start by getting rid of those prejudices you have. Personally, and I could be wrong, is that you fear to be rejected or not accepted by her… so #1 get rid of this.
Now, a bad way to approach a woman is with the mere desire of get sex from her… men and woman have a completely different view of sex… for women sex implies emotions while for men this could be a mere physical satisfaction… not always of course. When a man shows himself (honeslty) interested in something she finds interesting… this could be a good start… as long as it is honest from you. Eg. If she is interested in Literature and you find it kinder interesting… you could ask her about that…
Now, I’m an indiviudual and you can learn from personal views. The best way in my eyes is: go on the girl, talk to her about something interesting as long as the context is the appropiate… sweet talk doesn’t work at the stage of acquaintance… there must be something you share with her… an interest, so you go on that and onwards. The worst way in my eyes: go on the girl with the attitude of: YOU’LL BE MINE… and start ‘boasting’ etc…
It is not a big deal, if there’s a connection based on honesty from both sides… if there is patience… it generally works… what some men do not understand is the process of getting into know women:
#1 WE ARE NOTHING.
#2 WE ARE JUST ACQUAINTANCES.
#3 WE ARE ACQUAINTANCES.
#4 WE ARE FRIENDS.
#4 WE ARE GOOD FRIENDS.
#5 WE ARE GOOD FRIENDS.
— WE LIKE EACH OTHER… THERE’S A CONNECTION (THIS MIGHT BE INCLUDED IN SOME OF THE PREVIOUS)
Personally I think, men are good ’strategists’ it is just that sometimes they blur the order…
Humor: as long as you are not a clown!